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How to Choose the Perfect First Dance Song for Your Wedding

Your first dance is more than just a moment – it’s a memory that lasts a lifetime. From the melody that resonates with your love story to the atmosphere created by live music or a skilled DJ, the right first dance song can set the tone for an unforgettable evening. At All The Feels, we understand that this moment deserves the best. Whether you envision a string quartet, a postmodern band, or an energetic DJ, we’re here to help make it extraordinary.

Why Your First Dance Song Matters

The first dance is one of the most cherished traditions of any wedding. It’s a symbolic expression of your love and commitment, witnessed by all your family and friends. Choosing a song that resonates with your relationship adds a deeply personal touch to the celebration. Whether it’s a timeless classic or a modern tune, the right song should reflect your journey as a couple.

Live music can elevate this moment to something truly unique. Imagine a string quartet playing an elegant rendition of your favourite couple’s song. The right song and performance can move your guests to joyful tears and create a shared moment of joy.

In addition to emotional impact, your first dance song is a way to showcase your personalities. Are you both fun-loving and upbeat? Consider a lively track like “Marry You” by Bruno Mars. Prefer something more intimate and romantic? A heartfelt ballad like “All of Me” by John Legend might be the perfect choice. No matter your style, All The Feels can help you bring it to life with expert musicians and DJs.

How to Choose the Perfect First Dance Song

Selecting your first dance song can feel like a big decision, but breaking it down into a few steps makes it manageable and fun:

1. Reflect on Your Love Story 

Your love story is unique, and your first dance song should reflect that. Think about songs that hold personal significance. Was there a song playing during your first date? Is there a melody that reminds you of a special trip or a meaningful moment? Songs with sentimental value are often the most memorable.

If you don’t have a specific song in mind, consider lyrics that resonate with your relationship. A track like “Thinking Out Loud” by Ed Sheeran speaks to timeless, enduring love, making it a popular choice for many couples.

2. Consider the Style of Your Wedding 

Your wedding’s overall style and theme can guide your choice:

  • String Quartets: For timeless elegance, a string quartet can add sophistication to your special day. Songs like “Can’t Help Falling in Love” shine with their delicate touch, creating a fairy-tale ambiance.
  • Postmodern Bands: If your style leans vintage-meets-modern, postmodern bands offer a glamorous reinterpretation of pop hits. Imagine “Your Song” by Elton John with a jazzy twist – an unexpected and delightful experience for your guests.
  • DJs: For versatility and crowd-pleasing energy, DJs bring life to any dance floor, seamlessly blending your first dance with the reception’s flow. Whether it’s “Beyond” by Leon Bridges or a custom mash-up, a DJ can make it happen.

3. Tempo and Danceability 

Your comfort level on the dance floor is key. A slower song may be ideal for couples who prefer a simple, intimate sway, while a mid-tempo or upbeat track could suit those who want to choreograph something lively. At All The Feels, our musicians and DJs can help tailor the tempo to match your vision and skills.

4. Custom Arrangements 

At All The Feels, we specialise in creating custom arrangements of your chosen song. Whether you want a stripped-down acoustic version or a full-band performance, we ensure your first dance is uniquely yours. Customisation also allows for blending elements from multiple songs, adding a personal touch to your big moment.

How Long Should a First Dance Song Be?

While your first dance is a highlight, keeping it between 2 to 3 minutes helps maintain guest engagement and energy. Longer dances may risk losing attention, while shorter ones might feel rushed. Striking the right balance ensures the moment is memorable without overstaying its welcome.

At All The Feels, our bands and DJs can customise the length of your song, making transitions smooth and seamless. For couples with choreographed routines, we can create the perfect arrangement to complement every step, ensuring your dance is as polished as it is heartfelt.

Live Music or DJ? Choosing the Right Entertainment for Your First Dance

String Musicians for Classic Romance

Picture a string quartet delicately performing “At Last” by Etta James or “Stand by Me” by Ben E. King. This choice adds a timeless, romantic touch to your day. The warm, rich tones of live strings bring a level of intimacy and elegance that recorded music simply can’t match.

Postmodern Bands for a Unique Spin

Want to surprise your guests with something unique? Postmodern bands blend vintage and modern, making songs like “Your Song” unforgettable. They’re perfect for couples who want to stand out and give their guests a show-stopping moment to remember.

DJs for Endless Versatility


Our DJs are perfect for couples who love variety. They can seamlessly integrate your first dance into an evening filled with crowd-pleasers and dance hits. With a DJ, you have the flexibility to mix genres and styles, ensuring your reception flows effortlessly from one magical moment to the next.

Popular First Dance Songs to Inspire You

Need inspiration? Here’s a playlist of beloved first dance songs:

Making Your First Dance Extra Special with All The Feels

At All The Feels, we specialise in creating magical moments. Whether you’re drawn to the classic charm of string musicians, the vibrant energy of postmodern bands, or the dynamic versatility of DJs, we’re here to bring your vision to life. From custom arrangements to seamless transitions, our team is dedicated to making your first dance unforgettable.

Our musicians and DJs take pride in their ability to tailor performances to each couple’s unique style. We’re not just providing music; we’re creating an experience that you and your guests will cherish forever. Let us help you turn your first dance into a highlight of your wedding day.

Ready to make your first dance unforgettable? Book an All The Feels string musician, postmodern band, or DJ today – contact us now to bring your first dance vision to life!

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